Dating Older Women

A generation gap doesn't have to be a bad thing because age has simply ceased to matter in this world anymore. Dating has become open to all ages of people with attitudes getting a major face lift in the recent past; she may have been a senior in high school when you were still in middle school. But that doesn’t matter. The key thing to remember about dating older women is that age is truly just a number. Compatibility and open communication are much more important for a successful relationship, not calendar years.

Here are some dating tips for dating older women successfully.

KNOW WHERE YOU'RE GOING

Dating older women means dealing with someone who is either already established in the world or closer to that goal than you. She'll be looking at you to see where you're trying to go in life. You better have a plan. Selling her pipe dreams like "baby I'll buy you a car one day" isn't going to work. You should be able to show significant progress with your career as well as any other areas of personal growth.

SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS

If an older woman agreed to go on a date with you, it's because of some special quality you displayed. She knows you're younger, but if the age gap doesn't bother her it shouldn't bother you. There's no need to act especially mature for your age, but try not to take a step backwards socially. So, don't be so concerned about your own youth and lack of experience. More so, if your relationship begins to grow into something serious, you better know what you want, too. If she's ready for real commitment and you're taking too long to settle down, she'll kick you out.

DEMONSTRATE MATURITY

There are some definite social benefits to dating an older woman, but remember to be a gentleman at all times. She may already have an established circle of older friends who may or may not accept your relationship. If you have the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, demonstrate a level of maturity that matches your relationship. What her friends may want to see is true compatibility and compassion. They understand her past better than you do, so don't be afraid to take things a little slower than you would with a younger partner.

 SHE STILL WANTS TO HAVE FUN

Dating older women doesn't necessarily mean you'll be stuck in the house. She still wants to go out and experience life with you. Enjoy your boy toy status. She may be dating you because she wants to feel younger again. Who are you to deny her the experience? In order to successfully date this older woman, make her feel as if she's your age

LEARN FROM HER

If she's using you to feel young, there's nothing wrong with using her for her knowledge. She can give you a deeper understanding of the female psyche. You can also gain a great deal of sexual experience from her. Treat her like your own personal library, just in case it doesn't last. You'll be able to take this info to the next girl.

ONE MORE THING!

If you want it to work, compromise and communication are definitely needed. She needs to know where you're coming from and vice versa. This never changes, no matter how old you get.

LASTLY

There is no shame in dating an older woman as long as you connect. Older dating provides people with a lot of options in having fun. Many women are discovering this as an option to spending time in misery after a failed marriage or a widowed death.

Older dating may seem a piece of cake for you if you are trying out for older women. But this rarely happens to be the case. There are many older women who may not develop a liking for your behavior or vice versa if you do not follow the right approach.

It's important to keep in mind that these are just tips and not law. You should enter every romantic relationship with an open mind and an open heart. Every relationship is unique because every person is unique and the only thing that can safely guide you through it is to follow your heart in humility and surrender. Older dating can turn into a long lasting and mature relationship for years to come so don't write it off or think you're too young or too old to find love in older dating.

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