What Men Find Sexy About Women

The Top List

She’s Playful

Women who take themselves too seriously are seriously not sexy. There’s something about a woman who is comfortable enough to be playful, flirty, and not worry that she is risking her reputation. Please don’t confuse playful with silly. Silly women who are clowning for attention are vexing. In fact, playfulness is a great sign of maturity – a woman who loves life and isn’t ashamed to show it.

She's Beautiful

Almost every man agreed that a beautiful woman: (a) dresses in a way that flatters her figure (b) puts effort into grooming and (c) cares how men perceive her, even if the end result is very laid back and simple. There were few absolutes, except to say that a woman who thinks that going to the effort to look nice is somehow beneath her probably won’t be sexy to our test group.

She Likes and Understands Men

You might say, “Don’t all women who are dating like men?” Not really! Women who know how men function and love them for it are very sexy. There’s something about giving a man the rope he needs to pursue his passions that makes a woman irresistible.

She's Affectionate

It is hard to overestimate the impact of a physical connection to most men. A woman who understands this and gives affection freely is very sexy.

She Knows How to Say "Thank You"

Whatever your personal policies, early dating for most men is a time when they are spending money and making plans to arrange a nice outing. Men greatly valued a woman who was able to say, “That outing was fantastic”. A woman who has a spirit of gratitude signals to a man, “You can make me happy,” which is a primal component to attraction.

She's Willing to Bend the Rules

A woman who has rules, respects the rules and can still say, “This weekend the rules don’t matter,” is very sexy, and rarer than you might think according to most men. It’s this “partner in crime” mentality that men seem to find irresistible.

She's Willing to Set Aside Her Fear

It isn’t being fearless that is sexy. It’s having the fear, feeling the fear, and saying, “I’m going to set this aside and go forward anyway.” That woman is sexy. She is truly living life. She is going to suffer some failures along the way, but men will be chasing her and asking for her number the whole way.

She's a Great Kisser

Every guy considers himself putty in the hands of a woman who knows how to give a great kiss. It can take a woman’s sex appeal from 0 to 10 in 30 seconds.

She Likes to Laugh at your Jokes

Humor often comes up as a valuable trait, but it can be misleading. Men aren’t interested in women who crack jokes every other sentence. In fact, when he says he wants a woman with a great sense of humor he’s usually saying “I want a woman who thinks I’m funny.” Not surprisingly, when she does think he’s funny and laughs out loud he finds that very sexy.