Romeo and
Juliet fell in love at first sight. But then again, should you be getting your
love advice from a 450-year old dead guy? No!
Listen to
enough pop songs and watch enough romantic movies, and you're bound to start
believing that love at first sight happens all the time. But does it exist in
the real world, between real people?
Like so much
about love, the question of love at first sight can't be answered objectively.
But I'll do my best to answer it here in the most helpful way.
Is Your Mind Playing Tricks on
You?
Have you
ever seen someone and instantly felt attracted to every part of them, including
their personality (even though you haven't even talked to them yet)? You might
be quick to call it love at first sight, but it's probably what psychologists
call the attractiveness halo effect. When you see someone who looks great, your
brain sometimes jumps to the conclusion that their personality must be great,
too.
We all know
that not everyone's looks and personalities match up. Some attractive people
are total jerks, and some of the best people in the world aren't what you'd
necessarily think of as hot. So the halo effect is really just an illusion.
Your sudden feelings of love might go away as soon as you get to know the
person better.
Love: More than Just Looks
Everyone's
got a different take on what love is, but few people believe that's made out of
stuff you can find just by looking at someone. Love (at least if you ask me) is
made up of compromise, empathy and patience. You can't give or get those sorts
of things at first sight.
That doesn't
mean that your initial feelings can't turn into love. When you first see
someone, you might instantly know that you want to get close to them and learn
about them. As your relationship progresses, those feelings might eventually
grow into love. But is "love" really the word for your gut reaction?
Not unless your definition of love is kinda superficial.
When Couples "Just Know"
You might
meet couples who say that when they saw each other for the first time, they
"just knew." What did they really know? Probably that they liked how
the other person looked and acted, and that they wanted to take things to the
next step and get to know each other better.
If they want
to call it "love at first sight," that's okay by me. But keep in mind
that there are lots of other couples who get the same feeling when they meet
each other, and it ends badly or doesn't go anywhere at all. It's not the first
glance that makes it love. It's the stuff that comes later - the commitment and
caring that makes a relationship last.
The Danger of Believing Too
Strongly in Love at First Sight
You might be
wondering why I'm giving love at first sight such a bad rap. It's not that I
don't think the idea is sweet, or that I don't love some romantic movies. (My
favorite love at first sight scene's got to be this one from Romeo and Juliet.)
But it's
wrong to think that if you don't have intense feelings right away, it could
never be love. Some of the best and strongest relationships started out in
totally unromantic ways.
More
importantly, though, the halo effect can be dangerous. If you see someone hot
and assume that what you feel is love, you'll overlook qualities in them that
could end up hurting you. You might let them get away with abusive behavior
because your heart has taken over your better judgment.
So What's the Answer?
Whether or
not you want to believe in love at first sight is up to you. Just don't go out
there expecting to find it and get upset when you don't.
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