HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT PARTNER
To begin your quest to find the right partner, think about the
traits and behaviors you prefer. Most people automatically think of superficial
traits such as height or eye color. Though these traits may be important to
you, other traits may also be more important when it comes to having a healthy,
long-term relationship. Here is a list of some important qualities to consider:
1. Commitment To Personal
Growth
Interested in learning how to be a better person and partner.
Aware of emotional baggage and weaknesses.
Has personal goals for self-improvement.
2. Emotional Openness
Aware of his or her own feelings.
Able to express his or her feelings.
Desires to share feelings with partner.
3. Integrity
Honest with themselves.
Honest with others and you.
Does not play games about wants and feelings.
4. Maturity and
Responsibility
Maintains a clean house, pays bills and handles finances
Respects your boundaries, values, feelings, and time.
